I'm a Woman That Don't Nag! Why do men see every thing as nagging?

Why when a girl ask a man they are seeing to do something, they see it as nagging.
(Doesn't matter if its the first time it was brought up.)


I will post this and will let it take off on its own and see if you men know the answers to it.
Personally I think its because they know the word nag pisses us off, and they want out of doing it. Am I wrong?

Why do guys ask for digits n not call?? Why bother getting my number then!

 I hate when I'm out and men ask for my number but never call me.

I've been told that the answer to this one simply is to boost their ego.I'd like to hear other opinions on this.This has happened to me alot in the past year n it's really annoying!!!

Arizona Men... Can You Give Me Advice?

Okay everyone. I am pretty blunt so let me just say this outright. I am moving to Arizona in less then 2 weeks and have no idea what to expect from men there. I was raised in New York and then have lived in the mid west for the last 10 years. 

From the first move I know men here and men in NY are compeltely different. So tell me Arizona men, what do you look for in out there? For instance, in NY, people are more into hip hop than country music, going dancing is a typical first date, and at some point you end up on the ocean beaches having some "fun." 

In the midwest, hip hop clubs are also the trend, as is going to a local theater production, coffee houses, camping ect. Guy seem to like woman which meat to them in the midwest, not so much in NY. Also the standard here tends to be men don;t have sex wiht you unless they want a relationship. 

In NY that was the opposite. I am curious to know what to expect. I will be in the Prescott area so not even sure if there are any good hip hop/top 40 dance clubs or what there is to do out there for dates. I am open to most things, just trying to discover the baseline for the area so I know what sort of men I need to look for:)

I HATE SMALL TALK -- Anyone Like Meaningful Conversations?

Looks like I struck a cord with some of you guys.First of all no where in my Thread did I say first date. I said DATING as multiple dates with the same person.Or lots of long phone converations. At least I thought thats what dating is.

My point is that over a period of time I would hope the guy Im dating would start to talk about something a little more meaningful than his dog, the weather,the game or yes even his work. Not that his job isnt meaningful and a big part of who he is but woman, especially as you get older hope for more in depth conservation.

Maybe I need to just sit back and enjoy the ride more and not expect so much.Ive been told men are really not that hard to figure out, they are for the most part very simple. I dont if thats true or not and Im sure it depends on the man. Thank you for all the advice good and bad, it has helped to open my not so experienced dateing eyes.